Relationships are no walk in the park; it takes quite a bit of effort in order to keep a woman satisfied. In addition to keeping her company and satisfying her emotional needs, you also need to keep her satisfied under the covers with some oral techniques. While there are plenty of ways to engage her in the bedroom, there are some tricks that you should keep in mind. Did you know that fingering her, as well as using your hands during foreplay will bring her to the brink of orgasm and keep her begging for more? It’s one of the easiest ways to drive a woman insane, but there are also a couple techniques that will prove fail proof.
Don’t Ever Rush Things
It’s important to stimulate a woman with care; don’t go too fast right off the bat. Yes, speeding things up and adding to excitement will definitely get her off, and get her off hard, but if you do it too early on you will lose her interest in going any further. Work slowly: start by teasing her through her clothing, kiss her neck and stimulate her. After you have done this for some time you can slide your finger down into her panties, but make sure you keep her clothes on until she’s soaking through her underwear. Once you’ve reached that point, she’s yours. Do what you want to from there.
Watch Her Body Language
Although there are only so many different things that you can do with your fingers down there, certain types of stimulation or movements will do more for some women than it will for others. Watch the way she reacts to everything, and pay attention to what really makes her squirm. In most cases you should start by teasing her clitoris, as a majority of women go crazy for this, and most can only reach orgasm this way. You can then move to penetration; in this way it will be important to pay attention to her reactions… too many fingers can be uncomfortable while not enough will lose her attention.
Use Different Motions, Keep it Interesting
If you are fingering your woman and penetrating her, there are a couple of easy methods. Your primary focus should be on stimulating her g-spot. Using a flicking motion and a lot of pressure you can push her to a powerful orgasm. You can also try thrusting in and out of her, but this depends on the type of woman you are with. While you use your fingers inside her, try to use your thumb and gently play with her clit. Use a gentle flicking motion, rub up and down, and play around with different motions until you find the ones that drive her insane.
Every situation is different but as long as you follow these few simple steps she’ll be soaking wet, and begging you for more. While you may be tempted to go further right away, it can lead to a much higher payoff to continue stimulating her through several orgasms before you worry about reaching your own.